You Don't Have to Sink or Swim

I was talking with someone today about an unpleasant circumstance that she has found herself in.  She told me, "Right now, it's sink or swim for me." I have probably heard that euphemism hundreds of times in my life but I guess I never gave it much thought. But when my friend spoke those words to me today, they pierced right through my gut.

"No, no no", I wanted to say.  As believers, we never have to choose between "sink or swim" in a bad situation. Truly, we can rest and do neither for a time.  There is great peace to be found in getting quiet before the Lord and not panicking.  Fear drives us to panic and panic, to foolishness. That's when we either frantically swim for what we think is the far off shore, or we give in to despair and sink.

I recall a time when I found myself in a situation that literally took the breath out of me.  In one moment of time, it unexpectedly caught me by such surprise and was so life altering that I could hear my heart beating and my mind was swirling.  I could make no sense of what was happening to me. Have you ever been there; in a place where you felt you had no control over where your life was headed and you were at the mercy of something bigger than you?  That the only options you had were to sink or swim?

During this time, I immediately pulled myself inward.  I went to a safe, quiet place and sat on my heavenly Father's lap.  I didn't speak of the issue to others.  I didn't run around trying to get advice from anyone who would talk to me.  And I didn't stop my life.  I literally stayed in His presence every step of every day.  I surrounded myself with praise and worship music, with Scripture.  Sometimes, when I was alone, I would get down on my knees and cry out to Him in despair, in anguish, even in anger.  And then, I would get quiet and listen to my heart.

His sweet presence never left me.  I did not feel the need to "swim" for safety, because He was my safety.  As I stayed there with Him, my heart quieted, my mind felt peace and my direction became clear.  I slowly and carefully started sharing with people what had happened to me (I didn't tell people who would have pulled me back into anguish and fear) and they were amazed at my peace and confidence in the midst of this horrible situation.

Dear One, if you have been handed something that's heavy and heartbreaking, don't panic, don't react too swiftly, taking the chance of sinking.  But rather, take some time to sit with Him, pour your heart out to Him and wrap yourself in His presence.  His love is a balm that can heal any wound and make life sweet again.  You are His child and He is your Father.  You can stay there, on His lap as long as you want to.

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From His lap,